July 31, 2011

When existence of a friend is forgotten!!!

Disclaimer: This is no theory... this is no fiction... n this is no <what's d point>... this is plain simple statement.... ppl we forget n ppl who forget us... it may bear resemblance to only living persons... <for sure it does>... n its definitely not coincidental!

A friend... best friend... bffs.... gud friend... n wat all we call our friendsA childhood firend or a school friend is a friend for life... d obvious statement we all flaunt... <mostly to acknowledge d fact tht we dint make many gud friends later or had bad experiences (one and the same though)>.... however how many friends do we remember tht existed...

Most of us have had some best of friends if not 'the best' at different stages of our life - be it at school, college, job, etc. - but d bottom line remains - we all have had such 'close' friends at some stage with whom we shared all d tym...every talk... every plan... hang outs n what not... and at this present moment u dont even know whats he or she upto...

Yes! they may be listed as ur 'friends' on facebook n twitter or even in ur phonebook... but d story remians same... u r no more in actual contact....
I must admit i have kinda forgot some really gud ppl i used to be engulfed with at some tym... n on the other note.... some ppl have also forgot that i exist...

I knw its none to blame but bond itself which gets weakened by tym... <d best excuse>... everyone's busy wid work, family, career... n on n on...

Even a genuine hi on fb or twitter or an sms seem like climbing a mountain.... n if one does finally do it... bham... NO REPLY... or... M BUSY RYT NOW... or <just wants u to drop d cal>... or <ignore in n number of ways>..,

Just a small question to d one reading this random post... Have u forgotten some really gud friend??? How wud u feel if your current best friend forgets you???

-
Slahu


Verve v/s Nerve

Blogging after 5 long years... lot has changed. I have changed. The people around me have changed. The Social Networking has changed. But, for the records, Obama won because of the "change".  (hope he doesnt go out for a "change" - #likely). <the twitter effect doesnt seem to leave me.. anyhow... how does it matter... its my own journal... no rules>

Ok! that was some utter non-sense. Just wanted to start off on something weird. Mission accomplished. I still can get a bit weird (n that should not change... don't wanna stagnate! a big nooooooo!!!!!)

So coming onto the title of this blog. I just wanted to churn out all the thoughts, all the mood swings, all the conflicts between dreams, desires, wishes, n all those synonyms and the nerve to get them.

serious stuff aside... this "changed" era has led to being expressive.. n some real good friends wanted me to start blogging... well so be it... time for a change... n tym to unravel the verve by mastering the nerve... (wow.. that's a quote... n yes not copied!!!!!)...

Now off to blog-shlog